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1.The exes talk is a natural part of a relationship and necessary if you want to get to know that person. If you don’t want to know the number then just avoid serious relationships.
2.Not everyone will be completely supportive of your personal obsessions, such as superheroes. There is also a limit. Whether its superheroes or something girly like the color pink. If your room is covered head to toe with stuff that relates to it… it’ll be a little weird. If you are not willing to tone down your obsession a bit, its not really the girls fault. You cant expect for her to like everything about you and everyone changes a little bit in a relationship. The family issue, I agree with, but you cant be so self-absorbed to think its always the girl that’s the problem.
Deal Breakers from the girls perspective
1. A guy who is more interested in sex than getting to know the girl (much like the first host). If you find her extremely undateable than keep it in your pants. Knowing that a guy you liked stayed in a relationship with his previous girlfriend a little longer just to keep having sex…. deal breaker
2. A guy who is obsessed with superheroes and is unwilling to change at all in the relationship. I would never ask him to give up what he loves, but if hes so stubborn as to refuse any compromise… deal breaker
3. A guy who demands a girlfriend with a high level degree, but refuses to look at himself and say: “maybe I should focus on myself and see if I’m happy about my work position before I judge her.”…deal breaker
4. A guy who takes his first date to shows, concerts or games that only deal with his interests. Guys rarely focus during conversations and tend to talk about themselves, rather than ask questions. Because much like the first host noted, hes more interested in getting laid. If you want a girl to appreciate you then maybe you should set up a first date that deals with her interests. After all, you did ask her out. Its a give and take. We will actively try to learn and participate in your interests, if you take the time to take us to a nice dinner or picnic before a sports arena.
5. Lack of manners and chivalry. I would prefer it if a guy paid on the first date, opened the door and i cannot stress this enough…. BRING FLOWERS! Since when did that end? Seriously, its not hard to woo a girl into a relationship. Watch a romantic comedy movie. Watch any movie that contains any romance. It’s like we give you the answers and you still fail. I’m not saying you two, but in general.
For the flaking.. it sucks and a girl should never do that a day before the date. But if you are worried, text her everyday before the actual date. Shows you care and it doesnt have to be super long, just ask her a generic question like “how has your day been?” to let her know shes still on your mind.
This is just my view on it and I don’t represent the entire girl population, but if you dress nice for the date, bring her flowers, make really bad jokes that are so weird and stupid that force you to laugh and take the time to listen and ask her questions then “youre in there.” Again, just my view.
Overall entertaining podcast because I listened to all of it.